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If you're looking for a marriage that is playful, peaceful and passionate, then this is the program for you!

This is a results-based training. Each of us need to be trained to love the other person well. We can't assume we're doing this right, if we are not getting the results we want.

So first off, when you join Renew Connection: Deeper, loving relationship and TRUE intimacy program you will either choose the 1- husband 2- wife OR 3- package deal.  

The FASTEST way to ensure results is if you both do the program at the same time! 

What's included in the RENEW CONNECTION: Deeper, loving relationship & TRUE intimacy! course:


(1) Weekly LIVE trainings & classroom time

  •  Separate trainings for husbands and for wives.
  • Here, I will walk you through all of the steps to have incredible intimacy in marriage - emotional, physical and spiritual.  
  • And after the program is over, you’ll still have access to the trainings… so you’ll be able to go back over the material at your leisure.  


(2) Weekly LIVE Question & Answer trainings 

  • Separate trainings for husbands and for wives.  
  • Where your questions ahead of time so I can address them.  
  • You’ll learn how to have an incredible intimacy in marriage.  
  • What are the key thing to straighten out your emotional connection.  


Wives will discover...  

  • How your body works and become a wife that craves intimacy.
  • How your husband's mind works around intimacy in and out of the bedroom,  
  • And how his body works around intimacy,  
  • How to talk about intimacy (even if it's been off the table for 15 years!)  
  • What to say in intimacy and outside of it to make the transition seamless.  
  • How to be confident in all areas: all-day seduction, intiation and sexual activities.  

 

Husbands will discover...  

  • How do you create an environment in your home that makes her WANT to make love.
  • How do you make your marriage spark, be spontaneous and her truly desire you again!
  • How to have respect as a man (rather than be treated like your just another one of the kids)
  • How do you create sexual safety.  
  • How do you awaken her physical desire.  
  • How do you ensure you're setting you guys up for long-term sexual freedom not because of pressure but because of desire.  

I’ll show you how to do all of that in this program!  

The bottom line is that we're going to cover a lot of ground over 8 weeks, and you're going to come out the other end with...

  • a husband who's face lights up when you enter the room and treats you like a queen (even after 25 years, as one of my clients put it!) 
  • and a wife who is excited to do "Vegas style sex" (as another one of my clients said!)

But that's not enough. I want to take you beyond just knowing... and right into action.  

So I'm also going to give you... 

(3) Accountability Forms

Every week - here is where I will track your progress and help you get to where you want to go.  

(4) Specific Supplemental Material

As we're going through I'll be able to see how you're doing and I'll be assiging specific assignments based on what you need. 

Specific resources, articles, books or audios for you to dive into to MAKE SURE you are getting what YOUR SPECIFIC marriage needs to get to the next level!

(5) Online Private Community

  •  Separate groups for husbands and for wives
  • This is a space where each of you will feel safe to share and get support from others in the group - a fantastic place to have comradery around these sensitive topics!

BONUSES!

For Wives...

Freedom Finally ($200 value)  

I remember being so fed up with the pushing and forcing that I had many blocks to intimacy and they were real. For someone to just tell me what to do AGAIN would not have helped. I developed this mini-course for those who feel like I did: pressured and frustrated. 

  • This course is about feeling free from the inside out 
  • How do you become a woman who enjoys the experience, not dreads it?
  • Intimacy no longer has to feel like a personal threat but a place of rejuvenation
  • Intimacy can feel freeing and fulfilling from the inside and out 
  • Where you feel you have a voice and your desires and wants and dislikes matter and are respected 
  • Where you feel like your body is sacred and he treats it that way as well 
  • And you feel free and peaceful inside and out



The Seduction Course 2.0 ($400 value)  

-All about helping you get to a place of complete freedom in seduction. -I give you specific templates of phrases to say -All-Day-Seduction plans -What is OK in seduction -Already drafted tame and fiery language -This is new and improved and hasn't been released before, so it would be about  

Bonus Module Bundle ($200 value)  

-What If I Hate Sex? -When Will Ever Be Satisfied? -What if he wants me to sin? -What's Sexy AND Godly? -See beauty through a husband's eyes... what is sexy about each picture -The high-Libido diet -Surrender In Sex  

What's Keeping You From Your Godly Sexiness ($97 value)  


For Husbands...

Truly Known ($400 value)  

-If you're like many men and wonderng why she doesn't want to spend much time together, or why she avoids affections or why she even feels annoyed by you, this is the course for you. -She wants to be known at he core, and there are specific ways to communicate your true desire fr her to feel those ways -Discover how to make her feel like she wants to spend time in your company because you're the safest person there is  

Men's Bonus Module Bundle ($200 value)  

-Clitoral orgasm techniques -Master Her Orgasm -Encourage sexy language -How to get her to wear lingerie  

7 Blocks to her Libido ($97 value)  

Wild Romance ($200 value)  

-If you want her to look at you like she did when you were dating, then these tools and insights are key! 

Topics including: 

  • what SHE's looking for in long-term spice
  • what matters to her when thinking about romance
  • biggest mistakes men make around romance
  • why you might be doing 100 things leaving you exhausted and resentful and really you only need to be doing 10 really well
  • make her feel loved really well!




Husbands & Wives...


Ageless Passion ($200 value) 

-Interview with a seasoned husband who really cracked the code on passion even in senior years 

-He is retirement age and married over 45 years, yet he and his wife have incredible intimacy now (since my program) 

-He's had an incredible transformation through my program but he's also learned through experience how to have fantastic intimacy regardless of age!

Topics including: 

  • hormonal replacement, 
  • sexual health while aging, 
  • intimacy supportive exercise,


Also included in this course are materials regarding

  • erectile dysfunction,
  • delayed ejaculation ,
  • low-libido in men,
  • overcomming menopause symptoms.






Belah understands what husbands and wives need. 

This is what drew me to DYM program. Yes I’m a graduate of her program and my marriage has never been this intimate and I’ve been married for decades. 

We say now that we were merely roommates with ‘benefits‘ only months ago. We were on the brink of divorce but Belah’s program showed me what is important to her. 

All I did was learn about how I can change, implemented her lessons and my wife and I fell in love for real. Everyday now is like magic. 

But this program is so much more than intimacy, you’ll learn to be the man of her dreams. It’s so easy.  

I can’t put a price on this kind of wisdom. We are profoundly grateful.

-Jeffrey (married 20+ years)


"Belah has done the most important thing for me which is change the negative beliefs that I have had concerning my marriage and helped me to see from a renewed perspective which has forever impacted my marriage! 

Both my husband and I am grateful for what this program has done for us. 

I would absolutely recommend this program to anyone seeking to have growth in their marriage in the area of intimacy as well as conflict resolution... this program is life changing! 

What I love about Belah is that she is always changing and growing and staying on the cutting edge, so she always has a wealth of information to add value to every situation. 

I have attended many marriage seminars and trainings throughout my marriage and this is by far the best investment I have ever made.

-Sheila (married 15+ years) 


What your marriage like was it like before working with Belah?

Lack of sexual intimacy and communication. No variety in sex. A sexual routine in which I did all the work and she did very little participation. 

We had no conversations about sex and intimacy. my wife was not interested in changing. 

I felt like my wife did not care about me. I had stopped initiating and I felt discouraged. 

Unhappy and unfulfilled would be the best words to describe my feelings but I tried to keep the feelings buried.

Biggest celebrations after?

[My wife] apologizing to me about the past and the forgiveness exercise that I did. Our becoming more loving and intimate with each other. 

The ability to communicate needs without the fear of my wife losing her temper or judging me. Creation of an environment of happiness at home!

Belah has transformed my life. I will never be the same. She has given me joy, hope, confidence and the realization that it is O.K. to be a man! 

She has also given me a wife who knows how to bring joy and love to her husband!

Yes! I believe that 99% of people that I know could benefit from what Belah teaches. I would recommend this program to my kids, family and friends.

I will always be grateful for you, pray for you, and will never forget you! 

I am fighting back tears as I type this. I love and appreciate you Belah Rose!

-Lyle (married 40+ years)


What was your marriage like before working with Belah?  

  • A sexless marriage as a result of a an extremely strained relationship with my wife.  
  • Every day was tense. Neither wanted to be around the other.  
  • No physical contact. We were like roommates - and not in the fun, friendly kinda way.  


Biggest Celebration becase of the program?  

  • The return of intimacy to our marriage.  
  • The ability to talk about intimacy without my wife shutting down or me lecturing her.  
  • Feeling that joy at being around her like it was when we first met.  
  • I committed wholeheartedly, I saw my wife begin to change before my eyes.
  • The changes I made in MYSELF changed my wife.  
  • Every aspect of my relationship with my wife has improved and that was more than I bargained for... I will always be thankful.  

...  

This is the best I've felt about our relationship since we first got married.  

There's an openness and calmness that had been absent for many years.  

-John (married 12+ years)



Can't wait to see you on the inside!


Before being apart of Belah's program: I felt like I was living with a roommate instead of my wife.  

Sex was just intercourse and nothing else. It was always the same thing the same way with no variety at all. It was very un-intimate. Love making was always at the forefront of my mind and I couldn’t focus on other things because I didn’t want to miss an opportunity to make love to my wife.  

I felt like I had to walk on egg shells around my wife so I didn’t ruin an opportunity.

After being in Belah's program: 

Belah I just want to say thank you for these last three months. The things that I’ve learned are really priceless when it comes to my marriage. 

I feel like when I started this program I was really pretty immature, and selfish in my thinking and way of interacting with my wife. I feel like when we first started that it was all about me and my needs and what I could get out of the marriage, but I’ve learned that it’s not all about me.  

...When I first started this program it seemed like my wife didn’t even want to Talk to me, much less make love to me. Man how things have changed,..

The changes that I see in my wife are nothing short of a miracle, she has went from being cold and callous, To warm and loving! 

The kisses have gotten longer and more frequent, love making is incredible, and the emotional connection is real and much stronger than before and continues to grow. Thank you, thank you, thank you!  

-Sean (married 20+ years)



What were your biggest struggles before Belah's program?

The struggle to freely express myself and pursue my husband sexually.

Fear of trying new things. Especially in ways that are vulnerable. Making me second guess expressing myself and at times withholding from expressing myself. Not just in my marriage but in other relationships as well.

What are your biggest growth & celebrations? 

I have initiated sex more than ever with my husband. I’ve started doing things I’ve only thought about doing with my husband. I’m thinking of ways to seduce my husband. I have shifted the dialogue in my thoughts with faith statements. 

This has been a once in a life time opportunity for me. I am very grateful to have had this time and excited to see the journey continue. 

There is so much pointed helpful thoughts and insight into marriage and sex that few people have such clarity and authority on.  

It is the safest place I can think of to talk and grow in some of the most vulnerable areas...

-Janna (married 12+ years) 


What your marriage like was it like before working with Belah?

(1) Being vulnerable and open with my husband about sex 

(2) Not realizing how my attitude and actions toward sex affects my husband and his perception of this is how he equates it to my love for him I did not always look forward to sex and it was just another thing to be checked off my "To Do" list. I felt like it was more for him. 

What are your biggest growth & celebrations? 

I love having sex now and know that if I am not in the mood right this second-- I will be! I love showing my enthusiasm now because I know that it thrills him! There is so much more intimacy in our marriage now outside the bedroom. I understand his personality better and what is important to hiim 

I have been married for over 45 years and Belah's course has taken us to a new level. We were happily married but she has enabled us to put some "spark" back in our marriage. As a wife, I understand my husband better than I ever have. 

Would you recommend this course to others? 

Yes a million times!! The teaching and tools that Belah has given me are priceless! Even if you have a good marriage, anyone could benefit from her coaching. 

Thank you Belah for making these SENIOR years more fun!!!

-Leslie (married 45+ years)


John came to me because he felt like his wife was willing but mechanical. She'd have sex with him if he asked. And he'd tell her what he wanted her to do but it felt like she was always doing it just for him, never for her. That hurt his feelings. 

John craved Karen so much and it felt like she was just going through the motions -- albeit accommodating. That was his perspective. After speaking with him I had made up my mind that I needed to work with just her. 

When I spoke to her to "convince" her of this. 1:1 Karen told me her experience. She shared how inadequate and pressured she felt. She shared how much intense anxiety she has even coming home from work -- as Karen pulled off from the highway onto their exit heading home her body would literally shake. 

When I asked her how she felt, she said "I don't want to go home, but my kids are there. I have thought 'I only have to wait until our kids are out of the house and then I can leave'." 

But Karen was a very faith-based woman and knew that wasn't God's best for her family, but it was that intense. So she felt guilty even thinking this. 

On our call, she said she'd work with me IF he did separately as well. I called John and told him I needed to work with him too. He said ok. 

Then Karen called me back and said they decided that only she would work with me. I was suspect at her sudden change of heart. But, I decided to have our first coaching call with her. I deeply considered and prayed in advance of that call.  

We spoke for about 30min. Then I said "Karen, I need to talk to you about something. I am concerned. If I work with you, after our time together you will have a worse marriage". 

Confused, "Really?". Karen started to tear up. My heart went out to her. "Karen, I need to also work with your husband. If it's a budget concern, I can work with him and then you."  

Then the tears really flowed.Karen said "he's going to be so mad". She said softly "He said 'if she tries to sell you on working with both of us, say that neither of us would be able to work with you at this time'." I quietly and slowly said, "Yeah, I feel that way too". "Oh my gosh" she covered her mouth with her hand. I was genuinely surprised when he talked with me afterwards and said they made the decision to both work with me, separately. 

By God's grace, he listened to me and did the work. He REALLY did the work. She did too. 

And in WEEKS things changed. 

She told me how relaxed, loved and safe she felt. He told me she started doing things he'd never seen before in their 20 years of marriage - "Vegas-style sex" he called it. 

Per usual, it wasn't a straight line of transformation, but week by week they both dug in and just a couple of months later, she told me that she no longer shakes, she LOOKS FORWARD to sex with him, planning seductions and she's the one that gets turned on and goes for it even more than him at times! 

She's seen him become a better man of faith, father and of course husband. And she feels totally at peace and even excited about their future together. 

Here's the kicker, on our last call Karen reflected all of these things again - before and after. She told me she feels so free and loved. She had 2 paid-in-full sessions left and she decided she may use those eventually in the future, but she doesn't by any stretch need them now -- "we're amazing". 

-John & Karen (20+ years married)



FAQs

How can I get my spouse on board? -So this is THE MOST ASKED QUESTION. -It is a tricky subject for a husband or a wife, but it's my specialty :) -Which is why I've put SO much time and money into creating "an easing-into" the topic through the free seminar I recently produced. -I would encourage you to watch the Online Seminar replays TOGETHER. (Be sure to watch it in order... definitely start with Part 1). -Part 1 (first half together & se&ond half just for wives--if you're the husband that wants your wife on board DON'T watch the second half with her. If she doesn't want to watch it on her own, just skip to Part 2 so you can watch together.) -Part 2 (first half together & seco&d half just for husbands -- wives if you want your spouse on-board, I'd encourage you not to watch this second half with him) and -Part 3 you can watch together! -The ONLINE SEMINAR will only be available until Tuesday night. -Watch the Online Seminar Replay here. (if you want to watch it 2x fast, click the gear option on the video). -"Belah , your webinar was absolutely amazing , we both enjoyed it and cant wait for the other 2 ! You have such an incredible insight on the male -female relationship that we haven't seen from any other relationship expert ! Your content was spot on and was such an awesome introduction . Where were you 25 years ago !!!!!!!" Why is NOW the best time to invest in this program? -The Renew Connection program is brand new, and thus I'll be delivering the content LIVE. -That means you get WAY more access to me than you would the next time. -PLUS, it'll be a higher investment the next time this program opens up. -Currently, I have over $1800 in BONUSES that I have included in this program and I'm not sure if those will be available in the future. When will you be working with people 1:1? -Currently I'm at capacity, so not for a while. -My 1:1 investment (depending on the package) is many times the investment of this program. Can I take the program WITHOUT my spouse? -The short answer is YES! I have SO many success stories (see just one below) of people who took the initiative to do what they can to change their marriage. And IT CHANGED! -Even wives who were refusing intimacy, after I ONLY worked with their spouse, now she's WAY more generous intimately! -Even husbands who were NOT interested in romance, started taking her out and giving surprises! Why should both husband and wife take the course at the same time? -I'm a Activator. That means I help people change. -It's my favorite thing to do! -In all my time working, the MOST effective and the fastest is when I can be strategic with both parties. -I can teach them the secret sauce and the other person is learning their secret sauce. -And "game day" when they come together... it's fireworks! -So, ladies if you want your knight in shining armor, who adores you, listens to you and cares deeply about WHO YOU ARE... -And men if you want a wife who DESIRES you, is confident and seeks pleasure for her own sake in intimacy and respects you as a man... -THEN you both want your spouse to be in this program (at the same time you are!) What if my spouse goes first because of budget reasons? -That is fine! -My only hesitation is that one party MAY accidentally be undermining the progress of the other, because they don't get what their spouse needs in order for long term change. -I can help someone change by teaching the tips and tricks. But if it's not welcomed by the principles and strategy of the other person it easily could be short-lived. How is this different than therapy? -This is a results-based training and personalized coaching package. -Therapy walks you through life and helps you discover it on your own. -I give you the road map, the system, the blueprint that is proven and tested and true by my clients and this philosophy has impacted thousands around the world. (-Plus I coach therapists ON THEIR marriages who then work with couples in their practices.) Why the investment? -Instead of spending thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours and years in therapy (and I've had clients do this...), ...you can go through a very short but VERY effective crash course to gain the insights and transform your marriage NOW. -Transformation NOW, not years from now. -I coach people who have been suffering in their marriages for decades. -Why do that? -Gain the insight and stop suffering and GET ON WITH WHAT God wants for your life. What day of the week will the LIVE trainings be and what if I have to miss? -Not to worry, every training will be recorded and available for you. -You will have access to the replays for ever :) -I have run team coaching programs in the past where because of other commitments participants were ONLY able to be part of the group virtually - not on the live calls - and they had INCREDIBLE results. 

It's going to be awesome -- come on inside!