If you're looking for a marriage that is playful, peaceful and passionate, then this is the program for you!
This is a results-based training. Each of us need to be trained to love the other person well. We can't assume we're doing this right, if we are not getting the results we want.
So first off, when you join Renew Connection: Deeper, loving relationship and TRUE intimacy program you will either choose the 1- husband 2- wife OR 3- package deal.
The FASTEST way to ensure results is if you both do the program at the same time!
What's included in the RENEW CONNECTION: Deeper, loving relationship & TRUE intimacy! course:
(1) Weekly LIVE trainings & classroom time
(2) Weekly LIVE Question & Answer trainings
Wives will discover...
Husbands will discover...
I’ll show you how to do all of that in this program!
The bottom line is that we're going to cover a lot of ground over 8 weeks, and you're going to come out the other end with...
But that's not enough. I want to take you beyond just knowing... and right into action.
So I'm also going to give you...
(3) Accountability Forms
Every week - here is where I will track your progress and help you get to where you want to go.
(4) Specific Supplemental Material
As we're going through I'll be able to see how you're doing and I'll be assiging specific assignments based on what you need.
Specific resources, articles, books or audios for you to dive into to MAKE SURE you are getting what YOUR SPECIFIC marriage needs to get to the next level!
(5) Online Private Community
BONUSES!
Freedom Finally ($200 value)
I remember being so fed up with the pushing and forcing that I had many blocks to intimacy and they were real. For someone to just tell me what to do AGAIN would not have helped. I developed this mini-course for those who feel like I did: pressured and frustrated.
Wild Romance ($200 value)
-If you want her to look at you like she did when you were dating, then these tools and insights are key!
Topics including:
Ageless Passion ($200 value)
-Interview with a seasoned husband who really cracked the code on passion even in senior years
-He is retirement age and married over 45 years, yet he and his wife have incredible intimacy now (since my program)
-He's had an incredible transformation through my program but he's also learned through experience how to have fantastic intimacy regardless of age!
Topics including:
Also included in this course are materials regarding
Belah understands what husbands and wives need.
This is what drew me to DYM program. Yes I’m a graduate of her program and my marriage has never been this intimate and I’ve been married for decades.
We say now that we were merely roommates with ‘benefits‘ only months ago. We were on the brink of divorce but Belah’s program showed me what is important to her.
All I did was learn about how I can change, implemented her lessons and my wife and I fell in love for real. Everyday now is like magic.
But this program is so much more than intimacy, you’ll learn to be the man of her dreams. It’s so easy.
I can’t put a price on this kind of wisdom. We are profoundly grateful.
-Jeffrey (married 20+ years)
"Belah has done the most important thing for me which is change the negative beliefs that I have had concerning my marriage and helped me to see from a renewed perspective which has forever impacted my marriage!
Both my husband and I am grateful for what this program has done for us.
I would absolutely recommend this program to anyone seeking to have growth in their marriage in the area of intimacy as well as conflict resolution... this program is life changing!
What I love about Belah is that she is always changing and growing and staying on the cutting edge, so she always has a wealth of information to add value to every situation.
I have attended many marriage seminars and trainings throughout my marriage and this is by far the best investment I have ever made."
-Sheila (married 15+ years)
What your marriage like was it like before working with Belah?
Lack of sexual intimacy and communication. No variety in sex. A sexual routine in which I did all the work and she did very little participation.
We had no conversations about sex and intimacy. my wife was not interested in changing.
I felt like my wife did not care about me. I had stopped initiating and I felt discouraged.
Unhappy and unfulfilled would be the best words to describe my feelings but I tried to keep the feelings buried.
Biggest celebrations after?
[My wife] apologizing to me about the past and the forgiveness exercise that I did. Our becoming more loving and intimate with each other.
The ability to communicate needs without the fear of my wife losing her temper or judging me. Creation of an environment of happiness at home!
Belah has transformed my life. I will never be the same. She has given me joy, hope, confidence and the realization that it is O.K. to be a man!
She has also given me a wife who knows how to bring joy and love to her husband!
Yes! I believe that 99% of people that I know could benefit from what Belah teaches. I would recommend this program to my kids, family and friends.
I will always be grateful for you, pray for you, and will never forget you!
I am fighting back tears as I type this. I love and appreciate you Belah Rose!
-Lyle (married 40+ years)
What was your marriage like before working with Belah?
Biggest Celebration becase of the program?
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This is the best I've felt about our relationship since we first got married.
There's an openness and calmness that had been absent for many years.
-John (married 12+ years)
Before being apart of Belah's program: I felt like I was living with a roommate instead of my wife.
Sex was just intercourse and nothing else. It was always the same thing the same way with no variety at all. It was very un-intimate. Love making was always at the forefront of my mind and I couldn’t focus on other things because I didn’t want to miss an opportunity to make love to my wife.
I felt like I had to walk on egg shells around my wife so I didn’t ruin an opportunity.
After being in Belah's program:
Belah I just want to say thank you for these last three months. The things that I’ve learned are really priceless when it comes to my marriage.
I feel like when I started this program I was really pretty immature, and selfish in my thinking and way of interacting with my wife. I feel like when we first started that it was all about me and my needs and what I could get out of the marriage, but I’ve learned that it’s not all about me.
...When I first started this program it seemed like my wife didn’t even want to Talk to me, much less make love to me. Man how things have changed,..
The changes that I see in my wife are nothing short of a miracle, she has went from being cold and callous, To warm and loving!
The kisses have gotten longer and more frequent, love making is incredible, and the emotional connection is real and much stronger than before and continues to grow. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
-Sean (married 20+ years)
What were your biggest struggles before Belah's program?
The struggle to freely express myself and pursue my husband sexually.
Fear of trying new things. Especially in ways that are vulnerable. Making me second guess expressing myself and at times withholding from expressing myself. Not just in my marriage but in other relationships as well.
What are your biggest growth & celebrations?
I have initiated sex more than ever with my husband. I’ve started doing things I’ve only thought about doing with my husband. I’m thinking of ways to seduce my husband. I have shifted the dialogue in my thoughts with faith statements.
This has been a once in a life time opportunity for me. I am very grateful to have had this time and excited to see the journey continue.
There is so much pointed helpful thoughts and insight into marriage and sex that few people have such clarity and authority on.
It is the safest place I can think of to talk and grow in some of the most vulnerable areas...
-Janna (married 12+ years)
What your marriage like was it like before working with Belah?
(1) Being vulnerable and open with my husband about sex
(2) Not realizing how my attitude and actions toward sex affects my husband and his perception of this is how he equates it to my love for him I did not always look forward to sex and it was just another thing to be checked off my "To Do" list. I felt like it was more for him.
What are your biggest growth & celebrations?
I love having sex now and know that if I am not in the mood right this second-- I will be! I love showing my enthusiasm now because I know that it thrills him! There is so much more intimacy in our marriage now outside the bedroom. I understand his personality better and what is important to hiim
I have been married for over 45 years and Belah's course has taken us to a new level. We were happily married but she has enabled us to put some "spark" back in our marriage. As a wife, I understand my husband better than I ever have.
Would you recommend this course to others?
Yes a million times!! The teaching and tools that Belah has given me are priceless! Even if you have a good marriage, anyone could benefit from her coaching.
Thank you Belah for making these SENIOR years more fun!!!
-Leslie (married 45+ years)
John came to me because he felt like his wife was willing but mechanical. She'd have sex with him if he asked. And he'd tell her what he wanted her to do but it felt like she was always doing it just for him, never for her. That hurt his feelings.
John craved Karen so much and it felt like she was just going through the motions -- albeit accommodating. That was his perspective. After speaking with him I had made up my mind that I needed to work with just her.
When I spoke to her to "convince" her of this. 1:1 Karen told me her experience. She shared how inadequate and pressured she felt. She shared how much intense anxiety she has even coming home from work -- as Karen pulled off from the highway onto their exit heading home her body would literally shake.
When I asked her how she felt, she said "I don't want to go home, but my kids are there. I have thought 'I only have to wait until our kids are out of the house and then I can leave'."
But Karen was a very faith-based woman and knew that wasn't God's best for her family, but it was that intense. So she felt guilty even thinking this.
On our call, she said she'd work with me IF he did separately as well. I called John and told him I needed to work with him too. He said ok.
Then Karen called me back and said they decided that only she would work with me. I was suspect at her sudden change of heart. But, I decided to have our first coaching call with her. I deeply considered and prayed in advance of that call.
We spoke for about 30min. Then I said "Karen, I need to talk to you about something. I am concerned. If I work with you, after our time together you will have a worse marriage".
Confused, "Really?". Karen started to tear up. My heart went out to her. "Karen, I need to also work with your husband. If it's a budget concern, I can work with him and then you."
Then the tears really flowed.Karen said "he's going to be so mad". She said softly "He said 'if she tries to sell you on working with both of us, say that neither of us would be able to work with you at this time'." I quietly and slowly said, "Yeah, I feel that way too". "Oh my gosh" she covered her mouth with her hand. I was genuinely surprised when he talked with me afterwards and said they made the decision to both work with me, separately.
By God's grace, he listened to me and did the work. He REALLY did the work. She did too.
And in WEEKS things changed.
She told me how relaxed, loved and safe she felt. He told me she started doing things he'd never seen before in their 20 years of marriage - "Vegas-style sex" he called it.
Per usual, it wasn't a straight line of transformation, but week by week they both dug in and just a couple of months later, she told me that she no longer shakes, she LOOKS FORWARD to sex with him, planning seductions and she's the one that gets turned on and goes for it even more than him at times!
She's seen him become a better man of faith, father and of course husband. And she feels totally at peace and even excited about their future together.
Here's the kicker, on our last call Karen reflected all of these things again - before and after. She told me she feels so free and loved. She had 2 paid-in-full sessions left and she decided she may use those eventually in the future, but she doesn't by any stretch need them now -- "we're amazing".
-John & Karen (20+ years married)
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